HEY HOMEBREAKER

Dear Mistress,

It is after much reflection that I have chosen to write this letter. My hope is that it will get to you and many others who have chosen to break up homes. You see, to you am the faceless woman wife of the man you love so much. I have received your messages through some of my friends who felt the need to confront you about encouraging my husband to move out of his home into yours. The messages that came back to me are “Let anyone who has an issue with me talk to me herself” or “I didn’t even know he was married until it was too late.”  Too late for what? I didn’t send them to you, but now that you’ve chosen to send them to me, a response is inevitable. Not that I think it will make much of a difference to you or him, but your response got me thinking.

That man you introduce to others as your boyfriend is my husband. He is the father of my three beautiful children. My children, who at such a tender age are struggling with rejection and an uncertain future. Your selfishness and his selfishness have hurt us beyond words. His mother weeps for him, his family shake their heads. His friends wont speak to him. Whoever said that an illicit relationship can be happy? How can you be happy when you have built the foundation of your relationship on lies, deceit, selfishness and manipulation?

Because you think this is a competition and he is a prize you have won, you have failed to consult and dig up his past. Why would you when you think he is perfect? There’s more to my husband than meets the eye, you know. If you cared to do a bit of homework, you would know that he is plagued by addictions- sex, pornography, alcoholism and cocaine- for which he has refused to seek counseling. What’s more, since he moved in with you, he has refused to support me and our children. Do you imagine that a man who disowns his own flesh and blood will not do the same to you one day? Will you help him to pay alimony when the court orders him to do so? I ask this because, much of what he owns he acquired through me.

Once you get involved with a married man, expect heartache and pain. Are you aware of the girlfriend he has in Uganda? How about the model in Italy who resurfaces from time to time? Have you asked yourself why his wife let him off so easily?
You have been warned: there is more to your lover than meets the eye.

When the course of your affair changes and you find yourself alone, I hope you have strong shock absorbers, because it will hurt so badly and he will move on as if nothing happened, just as he did with me.
I hope that life will be kind to you. You stole what is not yours. I will not fight you; I will not fight for him. In the meantime I will let you experience the “fullness” of your relationship with him.

His legal wife

Borrowed from True Love

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