Jenwaki's Life Bench

We claim to be in love or to love someone but how do we know when we have found love or how do we define this emotion that we would travel to the end of the world just to find it?  We sometimes ditch perfectly good relationships in the hopes of finding more of it or spend the majority of time thinking about, striving, praying, hoping, fantasizing for and yes, even seeing shrinks to affirm that you are probably about to get your wish fulfilled.   So how do we know for certain that we have it?"  Is it when we experience that initial rush of lust and excitement, the butterflies-in-our-stomach feeling that happens just at the mere sound of our lover's voice, the trembling and breathless moment when we think about him/her, or when we can’t seem to think straight because our lover is occupying more than half of our thoughts? We also know that these feelings come and go and sometimes we ask ourselves if we are still in love when the feeling goes.   Love an...

I know I have been a little bit quiet in posting something for you my dear reader and this is the reason why. I uuuummmm..... am not.....I haven't yet........hhmmm do I really have a reason not to have engaged you with my posts? I actually don't, which for me is such a shame as am sure some of you look forward to my posts, don't you ;-)? Anyway, here is something I thought is quite beautiful and rich for your read and for you to marvel at as you await for my very own. It has become like an anthem in my life and am honoured to share it with you. Read on. " People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that Person.. When someone is in your life for a REASON , it is usually to meet a need You have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with Guidance and support, o aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.they may seem like a godsend and ...